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Why the Cross Removes Distress

Youth (13-18) · member guide · Anchor: Matthew 17:22-23· preview

From the sermon Distressing Prophecy

1. The Prophecy and the Reaction

Read the anchor passage together.

"As they were gathering in Galilee, Jesus said to them, 'The Son of Man is about to be delivered into the hands of men, and they will kill him, and he will be raised on the third day.' And they were greatly distressed." (Matthew 17:22-23, ESV)

Why were the disciples "greatly distressed" by Jesus' words even though he also promised resurrection?

2. The Missing Piece

The sermon explained that the disciples were upset because they did not yet understand the purpose of Jesus' death. Isaiah foretold the reason the Servant would suffer:

"He was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed." (Isaiah 53:5, ESV)

How does knowing Jesus died as a substitute for your sin change the way you see his death—and your own sin?

3. Before the Resurrection

Other Gospel accounts show the disciples could not grasp what Jesus meant:

"But they did not understand this saying, and it was concealed from them, so that they might not perceive it." (Luke 9:45, ESV)

"But they did not understand the saying, and were afraid to ask him." (Mark 9:32, ESV)

What difference does it make for you today that you know the rest of the story—both the cross and the empty tomb?

4. Facing Hostility with Joy

Because Jesus knew what his death would accomplish, he—and later his followers—could face suffering with confidence.

"For me to live is Christ, and to die is gain." (Philippians 1:21, ESV)

What are some pressures, rejections, or hardships you face at school, online, or at home because of your faith? How does the promise of resurrection and being with the Lord change how you respond?

5. Debate Springboard: Best Life Now—or Later?

The sermon stressed that followers of Jesus are "not living your best life now" and that the best is yet to come. Some people believe faith should guarantee happiness, comfort, and success right now.

  • If following Jesus cost you popularity, comfort, or future plans, would it still be worth it? Why or why not?
  • How would you explain to a friend who says, "I just want to be happy" why a Christian can face loss or persecution and still have joy?

6. Trusting Him More This Week

The sermon closed by saying, "It is sweet to trust in Jesus," while asking for grace to trust him more.

What is one specific stress, fear, or pressure you are carrying right now? Write down how the gospel—Jesus' death in your place and his resurrection victory—gives you a reason to trust him with it.

What is one practical way you will remind yourself of the "why" of the cross the next time you feel distressed or opposed?