Jesus the Employer: Kingdom Grace
Youth (13-18) · member guide · Anchor: Matthew 20:1-16· preview
From the sermon Jesus the Employer
1. Read and React
For the kingdom of heaven is like a master of a house who went out early in the morning to hire laborers for his vineyard. After agreeing with the laborers for a denarius a day, he sent them into his vineyard. And going out about the third hour he saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and to them he said, 'You go into the vineyard too, and whatever is right I will give you.' So they went. Going out again about the sixth hour and the ninth hour, he did the same. And about the eleventh hour he went out and found others standing. And he said to them, 'Why do you stand here idle all day?' They said to him, 'Because no one has hired us.' He said to them, 'You go into the vineyard too.' And when evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the laborers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last, up to the first.' And when those hired about the eleventh hour came, each of them received a denarius. Now when those hired first came, they thought they would receive more, but each of them also received a denarius. And on receiving it they grumbled at the master of the house, saying, 'These last worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the day and the scorching heat.' But he replied to one of them, 'Friend, I am doing you no wrong. Did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you and go. I choose to give to this last worker as I give to you. Am I not allowed to do what I choose with what belongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity?' So the last will be first, and the first last. (Matthew 20:1-16)
What surprises you most about how the vineyard owner pays his workers? Why do you think the workers who started first were so upset even though they received exactly what they had agreed to?
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2. The Comparison Trap
Then Peter said in reply, 'See, we have left everything and followed you. What then will we have?' (Matthew 19:27). Jesus said, 'And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name's sake, will receive a hundredfold and will inherit eternal life. But many who are first will be last, and the last first.' (Matthew 19:29-30)
The sermon connected this parable to Peter's question about what the disciples would get for following Jesus early. When have you felt like you were 'working in the heat' while someone else seemed to get the same reward with far less effort? How does Jesus' answer challenge that feeling?
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3. Agreement, Ownership, and Generosity
But he replied to one of them, 'Friend, I am doing you no wrong. Did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you and go. I choose to give to this last worker as I give to you. Am I not allowed to do what I choose with what belongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity?' (Matthew 20:13-15)
The master defended his decision on three bases: agreement, ownership, and generosity. Which of these is hardest for you to accept when God's grace does not match your expectations? Explain.
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4. Who Gets the Call?
No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. (John 6:44)
The sermon reminded us that God sovereignly calls people to Himself at different times—some early in the morning, some at the eleventh hour. How should this truth change the way you view friends who do not yet know Jesus, or new believers who seem to get a 'fresh start'?
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5. Your Vineyard Attitude
So the last will be first, and the first last. (Matthew 20:16)
Think about your actual life—school, sports, social media, church. In what area are you most tempted to compare what you have (or do) with someone else? What would serving faithfully and contentedly look like for you this week?
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6. Springboard: Fair or Free?
Some people say, 'If grace is the same for everyone, why not just live however I want and repent at the last second?' Others say, 'Loyalty and long obedience should definitely count for more.' Where do you land in that tension, and how does Jesus' teaching about the Kingdom reshape the debate?
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